There are two kinds of suffering: ordinary suffering and the extraordinary
kind. Ordinary suffering is the suffering which is the inherent nature
of conditions: standing is suffering, sitting is suffering, lying
down is suffering. This is the suffering that is inherent in all conditioned
phenomena. Even the Buddha experienced these things, he experienced
comfort and pain, but he recognized them as conditions in nature.
He knew how to overcome these ordinary, natural feelings of comfort
and pain through understanding their true nature. Because he understood
this ''natural suffering'' those feelings didn't upset him.
The important kind of suffering is the second kind, the suffering
that creeps in from the outside, the ''extraordinary suffering.''
If we are sick we may have to get an injection from the doctor. When
the needle pierces the skin there is some pain which is only natural.
When the needle is withdrawn that pain disappears. This is like the
ordinary kind of suffering, it's no problem, everybody experiences
it. The extraordinary suffering is the suffering that arises from
what we call upādāna, grasping onto things. This
is like having an injection with a syringe filled with poison. This
is no longer an ordinary kind of pain, it is the pain which ends in
death. This is similar to the suffering which arises from grasping.
Wrong view, not knowing the impermanent nature of all conditioned
things, is another kind of problem. Conditioned things are the realm
of samsāra4. Not wanting things to change - if we think like this we must suffer.
When we think that the body is ourselves or belonging to us, we are
afraid when we see it change. Consider the breath: once it comes in
it must go out, having gone out it must come in again. This is its
nature, this is how we manage to live. Things don't function in that
way. This is how conditions are but we don't realize it.
Suppose we lost something. If we thought that object was really ours,
we would brood over it. If we couldn't see it as a conditioned thing
faring according to the laws of nature we would experience suffering.
But if you breathe in, can you live? Conditioned things must naturally
change in this way. To see this is to see the Dhamma, to see aniccam,
change. We live dependent on this change. When we know how things
are then we can let go of them.
The practice of Dhamma is to develop an understanding of the way of
things so that suffering doesn't arise. If we think wrongly we are
at odds with the world, at odds with the Dhamma and with the truth.
Suppose you were sick and had to go into hospital. Most people think,
''Please don't let me die, I want to get better.'' This is wrong
thinking, it will lead to suffering. You have to think to yourself,
''If I recover I recover, if I die I die.'' This is right thinking,
because you can't ultimately control conditions. If you think like
this, whether you die or recover, you can't go wrong, you don't have
to worry. Wanting to get better at all costs and afraid of the thought
of dying... this is the mind which doesn't understand conditions.
You should think, ''If I get better that's fine, if I don't get
better that's fine.'' This way we can't go wrong, we don't have to
be afraid or cry, because we have tuned ourselves in to the way things
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Footnotes
- ...1
- This talk was given at the Manjushri Institute in Cumbria, U.K., in 1977
- ...
monasteries2
- At the time of printing this book (1992), there are about one hundred
branch monasteries, big and small, of Wat Nong Pah Pong.
- ... suffering3
- Dukkha: ''Suffering'' is a most inadequate translation, but it
is the one most commonly found. Dukkha literally means ''intolerable,''
''unsustainable,'' ''difficult to endure,'' and can also mean
''imperfect,'' ''unsatisfying,'' or ''incapable of providing
perfect happiness.''
- ...samsāra4
- Samsāra: The world of delusion.
- ...Attavādupādāna5
- One of the Four Bases of Clinging: Kāmupādāna,
clinging to sense objects; sīlabbatupādāna:
clinging to rites and rituals; ditthupādāna:
clinging to views, and attavādupādāna, clinging
to the idea of self.
- ...
one6
- Soon after his enlightenment, the Buddha was walking on his way to
Benares and was approached by a wandering ascetic, who said, ''Your
features are clear, friend, your bearing serene... who is your teacher?''
The Buddha answered that there was no-one in this world who could
claim to be his teacher, because he was completely self-enlightened.
The ascetic could not understand his answer, and walked off, muttering,
''Well, good for you, friend, good for you.''
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