The Buddha saw clearly. His teaching is always relevant, never out-dated.
It never changes. In the present day it's still the way it is, it
hasn't changed. By taking this teaching to heart we can gain the reward
of peace and well-being.
In the teachings there is the reflection of ''not-self'': ''this
is not my self, this does not belong to me.'' But people don't like
to listen to this kind of teaching because they are attached to the
idea of self. This is the cause of suffering. You should take note
of this.
Today a woman asked about how to deal with anger. I told her that
the next time she gets angry, to wind up her alarm clock and put it
in front of her. Then to give herself two hours for the anger to go
away. If it was really her anger she could probably tell it to go
away like this: ''In two hours be gone!'' But it isn't really
ours to command. Sometimes in two hours it's still not gone, at other
times in one hour it's gone already. Holding onto anger as a personal
possession will cause suffering. If it really belonged to us it would
have to obey us. If it doesn't obey us that means it's only a deception.
Don't fall for it. Whether the mind is happy or sad, don't fall for
it. Whether the mind loves or hates, don't fall for it, it's all a
deception.
Have any of you ever been angry? When you are angry does it feel good
or bad? If it feels bad then why don't you throw that feeling away,
why bother to keep it? How can you say that you are wise and intelligent
when you hold on to such things? Since the day you were born, how
many times has the mind tricked you into anger? Some days the mind
can even cause a whole family to quarrel, or cause you to cry all
night. And yet we still continue to get angry, we still hold onto
things and suffer. If you don't see suffering you will have to keep
suffering indefinitely, with no chance for respite. The world of samsāra
is like this. If we know the way it is we can solve the problem.
The Buddha's teaching states that there is no better means to overcome
suffering than to see that ''this is not my self,'' ''this
is not mine.'' This is the greatest method. But we don't usually
pay attention to this. When suffering arises we simply cry over it
without learning from it. Why is that so? We must take a good hard
look at these things, to develop the Buddho, the one who knows.
Take note, some of you may not be aware that this is Dhamma teaching.
I'm going to give you some Dhamma that's outside the scriptures. Most
people read the scriptures but don't see the Dhamma. Today I am going
to give you a teaching that's outside the scriptures. Some people
may miss the point or not understand it. |