We have to talk about the Dhamma like this, using similes, because
the Dhamma has no form. Is it square or is it round? You can't say.
The only way to talk about it is through similes like this. Don't
think that the Dhamma is far away from you. It lies right with you,
all around. Take a look... one minute happy, the next sad, the next
angry... it's all Dhamma. Look at it and understand. Whatever it is
that causes suffering you should remedy. If suffering is still there,
take another look, you don't yet see clearly. If you could see clearly
you wouldn't suffer, because the cause would no longer be there. If
suffering is still there, if you're still having to endure, then you're
not yet on the right track. Wherever you get stuck, whenever you're
suffering too much, right there you're wrong. Whenever you're so happy
you're floating in the clouds... there... wrong again!
If you practice like this you will have sati at all
times, in all postures. With sati, recollection, and sampajañña,
self awareness, you will know right and wrong, happiness and suffering.
Knowing these things, you will know how to deal with them.
I teach meditation like this. When it's time to sit in meditation
then sit, that's not wrong. You should practice this also. But
meditation is not only sitting. You must allow your mind to fully experience
things, allow them to flow and consider their nature. How should you
consider them? See them as transient, imperfect and ownerless. It's
all uncertain. ''This is so beautiful, I really must have it.''
That's not a sure thing. ''I don't like this at all''... tell
yourself right there, ''Not sure!'' Is this true? Absolutely,
no mistake. But just try taking things for real... ''I'm going
to get this thing for sure''... You've gone off the track already.
Don't do this. No matter how much you like something, you should
reflect that it's uncertain.
Some kinds of food seem so delicious, but still you should reflect
that it's not a sure thing. It may seem so sure, it's so delicious,
but still you must tell yourself, ''Not sure!'' If you want to
test out whether it's sure or not, try eating your favorite food every
day. Every single day, mind you. Eventually you'll complain, ''This
doesn't taste so good anymore.'' Eventually you'll think, ''Actually
I prefer that kind of food.'' That's not a sure thing either! You
must allow things to flow, just like the in and out breaths. There
has to be both the in breath and the out breath, the breathing depends
on change. Everything depends on change like this.
These things lie with us, nowhere else. If we no longer doubt whether
sitting, standing, walking, or reclining, we will be at peace. Samādhi
isn't just sitting. Some people sit until they fall into a stupor.
They might as well be dead, they can't tell north from south. Don't
take it to such an extreme. If you feel sleepy then walk, change your
posture. Develop wisdom. If you are really tired then have a rest.
As soon as you wake up then continue the practice, don't let yourself
drift into a stupor. You must practice like this. Have reason, wisdom,
circumspection.
Start the practice for your own mind and body, seeing them as
impermanent. Everything else is the same. Keep this in mind when you think the
food is so delicious... you must tell yourself, ''Not a sure thing!''
You have to slug it first. But usually it just slugs you every time,
doesn't it? If you don't like anything you just suffer over it. This
is how things slug us. ''If she likes me, I like her,'' they slug
us again. You never get a punch in! You must see it like this. Whenever
you like anything just say to yourself, ''This is not a sure thing!''
You have to go against the grain somewhat in order to really see the
Dhamma.
Practice in all postures. Sitting, standing, walking, lying... you
can experience anger in any posture, right? You can be angry while
walking, while sitting, while lying down. You can experience desire
in any posture. So our practice must extend to all postures; standing,
walking, sitting and lying down. It must be consistent. Don't just
put on a show, really do it.
While sitting in meditation, some incident might arise. Before that
one is settled another one comes racing in. Whenever these things
come up, just tell yourself, ''Not sure, not sure.'' Just slug
it before it gets a chance to slug you.
Now this is the important point. If you know that all things are
impermanent, all your thinking will gradually unwind. When you reflect on the
uncertainty of everything that passes, you'll see that all things go the same
way. Whenever anything arises, all you need to say is, ''Oh, another
one!''
Have you ever seen flowing water?... Have you ever seen still water?...
If your mind is peaceful it will be just like still, flowing water.
Have you ever seen still, flowing water? There! You've only ever seen
flowing water and still water, haven't you? But you've never seen
still, flowing water. Right there, right where your thinking cannot
take you, even though it's peaceful you can develop wisdom. Your mind
will be like flowing water, and yet it's still. It's almost as if
it were still, and yet it's flowing. So I call it ''still, flowing
water.'' Wisdom can arise here. |